About Karen L. Kaplan

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Her father, Arie Kaplan, was trapped by fear and saddled with bitterness throughout his adult life. He survived the Holocaust by living in the forests and managed to make his way to the states after the war.  He educated himself, married a beautiful nineteen year old and had three accomplished children. Because he never forgot the deprivation and struggles of his youth in Poland and lived as though the Nazis could return at any moment, he suffered and caused suffering until the day he died.

As her father’s health was declining, Karen began to realize that she hadn’t yet overcome a chaotic childhood filled with physical abuse, medical deprivation and paranoia. She began to understand that she must make a decision to either continue the lineage of victimhood, resentment and hatred or move forward with compassion and forgiveness toward her father and towards the phantom ghosts that have continued to haunt many in her tribe.

Karen’s decision to forgive her father led her to visit Poland, once home to one of the world’s largest Jewish communities. She saw the death camp of Auschwitz and the desolate Jewish neighborhoods of Krakow, Warsaw and Bialystok. Finally in Rajgród, her father’s village, she happened upon an old woman who remembered her grandmother and was able to tell stories about life before and during the war. As she stood outside her father’s childhood home on the very spot where he witnessed the barbaric murder of his mother and sisters, something happened to Karen. She began sobbing, and didn’t stop until she realized that she needed to completely change her way of thinking.  She felt compelled to forgive all who collaborated to murder six million Jews including her father’s family. It was a necessary step towards her healing.

She drove to the abandoned Jewish cemetery of Rajgród and… Continue…

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    MAY 17, 2016 Review from Warsaw, Poland Dear Karen, I finished reading. This was without any doubts one of the most important book in my life. Not only because it is written with inner passion and with visible story-telling and writing skills, but rather because it shows also the essence of the story of my life. I ...more

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